Question 1

What is betrayal trauma?

Accepted Answer

Betrayal trauma is a nervous system injury that occurs after discovering a partner's affair. It manifests as hypervigilance, sleep disruption, compulsive checking behaviors, and loss of self-trust—common trauma responses, not signs of weakness. Research shows these are normal reactions to abnormal situations.

Question 2

Can I heal from betrayal trauma if my partner isn't participating?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Your healing process isn't dependent on your partner's participation. This program is designed for individual learning and growth, regardless of whether your partner engages. The nervous system regulation techniques benefit you whether you stay or leave the relationship.

Question 3

How long does it take to heal from betrayal trauma?

Accepted Answer

Healing timelines vary by individual. Participants commonly report early changes in weeks 1-8 (improved sleep, reduced hypervigilance), mid-program changes in months 2-6 (restored self-trust, clearer decisions), and long-term transformation in months 6-12+ (reclaimed personal power, relationship clarity).

Question 4

What makes this program different from traditional marriage counseling?

Accepted Answer

This program treats betrayal as a nervous system injury first, not just a relationship problem. It combines EMDR trauma therapy principles with Gottman Method relationship science. You learn to regulate your nervous system before making major decisions about your relationship, allowing you to choose from clarity rather than crisis.

Question 5

Is this program a substitute for therapy?

Accepted Answer

No. This is an educational program informed by EMDR and Gottman Method principles, not a substitute for individual therapy or medical treatment. Dr. Cammy offers individual therapy sessions to program participants at exclusive rates for those seeking additional clinical support.

Question 6

What if we end up divorcing anyway?

Accepted Answer

The nervous system regulation skills you learn serve you for life—in any relationship, with any partner, in any circumstance. Unhealed trauma responses can follow you into every future relationship and life decision. Whether you stay or leave, these tools support your healing and future wellbeing.

Question 7

How does the 30-day money-back guarantee work?

Accepted Answer

Complete Phase 1 within 30 days. If the techniques taught don't help you feel measurably calmer, safer, and more regulated, request a full refund—no questions asked. If you implement the Phase 1 techniques consistently and don't see improvement in your nervous system regulation, you shouldn't pay for it.

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